“A family is like a ship. There can be only one captain. It is the husband.”, Ninong Bimbim told us in his speech during our wedding. “Weh?!”, the feminists exclaimed. “And there can be only one treasurer! It is the wife.”, he continued. “Ah okay!”, the feminists were convinced. Lelz. It is difficult for me to adopt the first statement. First off, I’m a domineering biatch! lelz . Second, in our family, my mom makes almost all of the major decisions. Please don’t take this against my father. He’s a good man, a loving husband and a near perfect father. It’s just that my mom’s decision-making ability is better. But since submitting to the husband is in the bible, I’m now in the process of becoming a submissive wife. I thought the second one is pro-me. Contrary to my impression, keeping the purse is not easy. I need to spend wisely. I need to s...